Follow UP

Checking for Understanding:

1. How much did you learn?
2. How well did you listen?
3. How much did you retain?

 

Let’s Check and See <;>

1. What are 12 Key Steps for using AL?
   –Which ones are you already using? (Be Specific)
   –Which ones are you not using? (Be Specific)
2. What are 12 Key Benefits for using AL?
   –Which ones are most attractive and beneficial to you personally?
   –Which ones are most attractive and beneficial to your spouse/best friend?
   –(Be Specific)
3. What are 12 Key Harmful Problems do you experience from from not using for AL?
   –What are Key Problems have you experienced from from not using for AL?
   –What are Key Problems has your spouse experienced from from not using for AL?
   
4. What are the Key Scriptures Detailed in the Biblical Wrap Up?
   –Which one most closely identifies with you?
   –Which one most closely identifies with your spouse?
   –Why are they so important to know how put these scriptures into skilled usefulness?
5. Which 3 Videos were most helpful to you?
   —Which 3 Videos were most helpful to your spouse?
   –Which Videos would you likely share with someone else?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A Quick Review of the Steps (How to Points)

 

1. Be Fully Present

• • Give the speaker your undivided attention. Eliminate distractions such as phones or background noise, and focus solely on the person speaking127.

2. Use Positive Body Language

• • Show you are engaged by making eye contact, nodding, smiling, and maintaining an open posture. Your nonverbal cues should signal attentiveness167.

3. Listen Without Interrupting

• • Allow the speaker to finish their thoughts without cutting in or finishing their sentences. Avoid formulating your response while they are speaking145.

4. Show That You Are Listening

• • Use small verbal acknowledgments like “yes,” “I see,” or “uh-huh” to encourage the speaker. These cues demonstrate that you are following along16. (That can be hoakie, but the intention is well meant.)

5. Reflect and Paraphrase

• • Periodically repeat back what you have heard in your own words. For example, “What I’m hearing is…” or “It sounds like you are saying…”157.

6. Ask Clarifying Questions

• • If something is unclear, ask open-ended questions to gain a better understanding. For example, “Could you explain what you mean by…?”123.

7. Withhold Judgment

• • Keep an open mind. Avoid making assumptions, passing judgment, or offering criticism while the other person is speaking157.

8. Recognize and Validate Emotions

• • Listen for both the content and the emotion behind the words. Acknowledge feelings by saying things like, “It sounds like you’re feeling…”25.

9. Avoid Distractions

• • Refrain from side conversations, checking your phone, or letting your mind wander. Stay focused on the speaker and the conversation167.

10. Provide Constructive Feedback

• • When it’s your turn to respond, be honest, respectful, and considerate. Offer your perspective without attacking or dismissing the speaker15.

11. Summarize Key Points

• • Occasionally summarize what has been discussed to ensure mutual understanding and to help both parties stay on the same page16.

12. Practice Empathy and Patience

• • Listen with both your heart and mind. Be patient, especially if the topic is difficult for the speaker. Show kindness and understanding throughout the conversation27.